When it comes to dating, women have it easy; they find a guy they like, get wined and dined by him, receive gifts, and all they have to do is look pretty. Wouldn't it be great if dating were like that for guys? For guys who are dating cougars, life is exactly like that. And, you can be one of these guys too. So pay attention - these 5 tips will get you started on the road to keeping your cougar happy.
1. Be her fantasy guy
A cougar is without a doubt attractive and confident. She can have anything and any guy she wants. Your job is to make her want you. You can do this by radiating that youthful appeal that she is looking for. Physically, you need to look good. Visit the gym if you have to. Dress well and have confidence in yourself. Don't forget to brush up on your conversation skills. Even the best eye candy will not get very far if he can't stimulate her mind with an interesting conversation. A cougar looks for a man that can match her in looks, confidence, intelligence, and sex appeal.
2. Relinquish control sometimes
The reversal of the traditional power dynamic with cougars and their mates can be really very hot. She will want to take the lead when it comes to money and sex. The perfect cougar wants a man who does not feel emasculated by her ability to support him, shower him with gifts, or take the lead in bed. Let her be the boss when she wants, but don't forget to be proactive and arrange a few dates yourself. She won't pressure you to settle down, but you will earn major points if you show her that you can and will stick around.
3. Seduce her mind
You must display the youth she finds attractive while also maintaining a level of maturity if you want to be a part of her life. Make sure you pay attention via text messaging, calls and casual notes. Tease her throughout the day with sexy thoughts of you two but refrain from being too raunchy. Keeping her mind on you will ensure she keeps you around.
4. Show off
Face it, women like to show off. Give her something to be proud of. Wear your fitted shirt and tight jeans when her friends come around. Carry her things, open doors for her, and basically be the sexy gentleman that makes her friends jealous. Your perfect cougar will not want to let you go if you make her the envy of all her friends.
5. Satisfy her
When it comes down to it, this will make or break your relationship. Women sexually peak later in life, so a cougar looks for the man who can keep up with her. She knows what she wants and will tell you how to do it right. Mind blowing sex could be your ace in the hole. Listen to your cougar and pay attention to her desires. As an experienced sex partner, you may even learn a thing or two.
Keep these 5 tips in mind and you will not only win her over but she'll want to keep you around for a nice long time.
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