By Cheche V. Moral, Vangie Baga-Reyes, Pam Pastor Philippine Daily Inquirer
Direct link to Inquirer.net article: http://lifestyle.inquirer.net/sundaylifestyle/sundaylifestyle/view/20100808-285503/Will-you-be-a-cougar
Yes, sounds like fun, and if he is charming, intellectually curious, kind to others, has a good sense of humor it just might lead to “gonna make it after all.” Women can date whom they want, when they want and get called just “women.” Though I will not date any man 10 years younger and any boy as young as my 18-year-old son.—Michele Sison, designer, Michele Sison et Kleid; widow with a teenage son
Cougar! What a provocative name for an older woman with a much younger man as prey. I’ve been free to date for the last 10 years, but no, I wouldn’t care to date a much younger man. I do not enjoy the prospect of becoming a sugar mommy, for what else would a much younger man want with an old cow like me? I know it’s just a date, but I’m sensitive to what people might say and will never be able to explain to my conservative children. A woman should always behave her age, especially if she has children who look up to her as a model.—Erlinda Enriquez Panlilio, writer; widow
No, I will not go out with anyone younger by more than five years. I’ve always liked the wisdom, wordliness and finesse of older men.—Leah Caringal, managing director, Green Bulb PR; happily single open to fun and action
While I’d much rather date an older man or someone my age, I wouldn’t discount dating someone younger. If a young, confident stud could transform playful banter into intellectually engaging conversation, why not? Plus, he’d most likely be already impressed with who you are and what you’ve accomplished without having you try so hard.—Zo Aguila, editor in chief, Cosmopolitan magazine; single and loving it
Even if I were free to date now, I wouldn’t go out with a much younger man. I have four children, I don’t think I can handle a fifth.—Kaye Tinga, philanthropist- socialite; married
Yes, more out of curiosity than anything else. I’ve been associated with older men ever since I can remember so it might be exciting to break out of the mold once in a while. Although the maximum [age] I would probably go is 10 years my junior. [Any younger] than that would be way too much work and for the more adventurous woman I guess—I can’t imagine what our conversations would be like! Or maybe I shouldn’t judge too hastily and just need to get my feet wet first. Ask me again in a few years.—Malu Francisco, retail executive; single with two adult kids
Why not? As long as the guy knows how to differentiate the mother from her daughters. And the affair should not cost me anything. —Annie Ringor, managing director, Bridges@Com; widow with two daughters
I would date a younger man but it depends how much younger. Young people can be fun and interesting and give off a nice vibe and energy. That can’t be a bad thing. Actually age isn’t a big deal because there are also immature older men. The age difference just shouldn’t look too obvious or awkward.—Chiqui Mabanta, restaurateur, Corner Tree Café and Mexicali; single
Assuming I were free, yes I would go out with a younger man, but no more than 10 years younger. First, they’ve got more energy. Second, I noticed that men mature a lot faster than they used to, so you get a fresh new perspective on life, politics, religion... And the fact that they show interest in an older woman shows that they are open to intellectual stimulation. And hey, a little spice never hurt! Ahh... I have the makings of a cougar!—Marla Moran Tañada, restaurateur, Café Mediterranean; married with two kids
Now at 33, no. I’m a different person now. But if I recall, when I was 27 I “dated” a 19-year-old, and his cousin who was also 19 right after. Haha! I have dated much older men, too. About 10 years my senior. Now the perfect fit, the man I’m dating is 35. We are at the same stage in our life, enjoying our youth and will be literally growing old together.—Tina Pamintuan, model, chef, restaurateur, L’incontro Ristorante Italiano; single
Assuming that I am in a position to still go dating, I don’t find anything wrong in going out with someone younger than me. If the chemistry’s there, why not? What’s important is that we get along well and we have the same appreciation of things. The relationship should be inspiring and fun and as long as there’s mutual love, trust and respect, age shouldn’t be a problem.—Antonette Villanueva Rodriguez, badminton enthusiast; married with two children
I’m two years older than my husband so yes, I would. Age is just a number. It doesn’t dictate maturity or love.—Sunshine Puey Pengson, chef, The Goose Station; married
Nope. Depends on my age. [When I’m] 50 [or older] definitely. [Now that I am still under] 40, I would rather go out with an older man since I want a man to take care of me instead of [me] taking care of a [him].—Pixie Sevilla Santos, chef-instructor, Magsaysay Institute of Hospitality and Culinary Arts; married with one daughter
Depends.—Millie Dizon, VP for marketing communications, SM; single
I’m fine as long as he’s a man who is striving for perfection in every aspect of his life. Basta not more than five years younger.—Ruby Gan, entrepreneur/power lifter; single with two adult sons
No, I want a mature man who can fascinate me with his brain. And I already have three kids, I don’t need another son to baby. Gusto ko ako naman ang alagaan.—Madge Lejano, makeup artist, single
No, because men are immature by nature. I’d rather go out with a guy my age or older.—Agoo Bengzon, beauty editor; married
Definitely yes... It will be wonderful to get fresh energy into the system. —Tessa Prieto-Valdes, columnist/host/interior designer; married
Age is nothing but a number, it’s the maturity that matters. I once dated someone who was much older than me but he turned out to be infantile.—Divine Lee, entrepreneur/ model; in a relationship
Yes, why not? As long as he can carry an intellectual conversation with me, age will never be a barrier.—Leah Salterio, publicist; regularly dating
Personally, I’d rather date a king than a prince charming.—Joyce Ramirez, publicist; single
No, they don’t know what they want in life. Older men are sexier—I married one.—Juana Manahan-Yupangco, writer; wife of sexy older man
Depends on his maturity level. I was asked out on a date by a younger guy and he took me bowling—with his family. Fail!—Maui Reyes-Drilon, advertising copywriter; married
Yes! The younger guys now have less hang-ups than those of my generation. They are all about having fun. Older, pretty women fascinate them as well. Would I marry one, though? Probably not.—Kinny Salas-Amparo, beauty columnist; married
Yes, I would consider it! Usually guys my age (29-30) are either taken or gay. It’s a little frustrating!—Kara Alberto, PR executive; single
Ten years younger? Why not? Malay mo mag-click. Pero kailangan maginoo siya pero medyo bastos, hindi KJ, hindi pa-impress at dapat may ipambabayad siya ng bill ng kinain namin otherwise magwo-walkout ako... Next, 10 years older please!”— Merci de Leon, physician; married
If I were single, why not? It’s just a date. Although I’ll do a little investigating first if it‘s really worth giving a try or not.—Hazel Vera de la Cruz, housewife
Yes, absolutely. Why not? I think I’m still too young to be called a cougar or MILF and I’m totally not an ageist! Though I’ve only dated a younger man once, I have always been friends with younger people in general so I can’t imagine holding a man’s age against him. Nowadays, age is just a number. Whatever their age, I’ll make sure to select men who are honest and genuine and who are who they claim to be. Age is no indicator of how decent a man is. —NJ Torres, publicist; single
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