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Sunday, August 22, 2010

A Knack for Grilling Honchos



Christine Tan is synonymous with the show Managing Asia. Her secret to getting CEOs to open up is a soft and honest approach

By Wong Kim Hoh
ST PHOTO: ASHLEIGH SIM

CHRISTINE Tan sputters and nearly chokes on her prawn dumpling.

'It was not me, I have never posed for FHM,' she declares in mock horror, referring to the men's magazine synonymous with provocative pictures of scantily-clad women.

'And I would never pose for FHM,' Tan adds, in the chi-chi surrounds of the China Club on the 52nd floor of The Capital Tower.

Straightening her business jacket which she wears over a ruffled blouse, she says: 'You have mistaken me for Christine Chan, a lawyer and a stunner.'

Apart from the similar English name, the confusion has arisen because both these good-lookers used to read the news on Channel 5 in the 1990s. But while Chan has disappeared from the limelight presumably to focus on her legal career, Tan, 38, has gone global.

Since joining CNBC Asia in 1999, she has hosted some of the network's most popular financial shows including Squawk Box and Asia Market Wrap.

But Tan is perhaps best known as the charismatic host of Managing Asia, where she interviews CEOs of top firms doing business in Asia. The programme reaches out to 150 million viewers in the continent.

She grimaces at the suggestion that her interviewees might be impressed if they knew she had graced the pages of a lad's magazine.

'You may give the CEOs a heart attack,' she wisecracks. 'I think they would be more impressed with my homework, the questions I ask.'

The Catholic Junior College alumnus never thought she would one day traverse the globe in pursuit of financial stories or grill captains of industries on the secrets of their success or reasons for their failures.

'I've always thought I would end up doing administrative work in a corporation,' she says.

She did not even think she had the gift of the gab.

Although she once played a singing Mother Mary in a Christmas play and was one of three cackling witches in a production of Macbeth, her energies as a student were channelled into more physical pursuits.

She was a school sprinter as well as an adventure camp and canoeing instructor.

'My husband always asked me what happened,' says Tan, who has been married to her university sweetheart, a banker, for 15 years.

She grew up in Serangoon Gardens with her parents and younger brother, a 31-year-old media researcher.

Her father - a retired post office superintendent - was her running coach, her mother - a former secretary - made sure the boys were kept at arm's length.

'She imposed curfews, screened my calls and interrogated boys with questions such as, 'What is your name? How old are you?' 'she recalls with great amusement.

It was while reading sociology and English literature at the University of Auckland that she started to enjoy speaking up and expressing her opinions.

And former newscaster Kenneth Liang - now vice-president of programming and production for Channel 5 - must have been bowled over by her potential when he went scouting for talent in New Zealand. He offered her a job on the spot and when told that she wanted to do a post-graduate degree, threw in a scholarship as well.

She joined the then Television Corporation of Singapore (TCS) in 1994 after completing her master's in sociology and media studies.

She cut her teeth as a reporter, 'covering everything from health to crime to disasters'.

Three years later, she became one of the station's youngest newscasters before moving on to anchor programmes such as Money Mind.

She was primed to play a big role in Channel NewsAsia but quit just a couple of weeks before the news channel launched in early 1999 to join CNBC. Her resignation was a 'delicate and sensitive' affair.

But the CNBC offer was too good an opportunity to pass up.

'It was a journey I had to go on. I would be hosting a global business show. I knew I was being thrown into the deep end but it would establish me as a business journalist.'

She adds: 'Unlike journalists in the United States who cover just one market, we have so many markets, currencies and companies in the region.'

Tan is drawn to the drama of financial news.

'Take the Asian financial crisis. How did something seemingly so small trigger a financial meltdown?' she says, referring to the devaluation of the Thai baht in July 1997 which triggered off a recession in many regional economies.

She made her mark pretty quickly. She was a finalist for Best News Anchor in 2001 and 2002 at the New York Festivals Award.

In 2004, she received the Best News Programme award at the 2004 Asian Television Awards for a series she did with The Asian Wall Street Journal. The same programme also won a finalist award at the 2004 New York Festivals for Coverage Of A Breaking News Story.

A Worldwide Exchange viewer posted this comment about her on the Internet: 'Tan is simply the least self-promotional financial host(ess) on air today. The guests are Asia- and Europe-based analysts whose agendas seem to have been left at the door. Very refreshing... and informative.'

Tan talks with the confidence and briskness associated with highly organised and efficient people. She unabashedly admits she is both.

'I have to be very disciplined about partitioning my life into time schedules.'

She gives an example: 'For three years when I was doing Squawk Box, I had to excuse myself from dinners at 8pm so that I could get home to sleep and wake up at 4am.'

She loathes doing things at the last-minute and will work through weekends just so she can rest easy.

Good looks help?

FORMER TCS colleague and now good friend Nicolette Rappa-Tjoa says: 'Christine is one of the most principled people I know. Workwise, she is intense, focused and very conscientious.'

CNBC producer Dorin Lim, who has worked with Tan for about six years, agrees.

'She is the quintessential professional. Producing Managing Asia is quite an adventure. We have dealt with typhoons, zero temperatures, van breakdowns yet she has braved them all, doing stand-ups with a smile and no complaints.'

Indeed, Tan - who does her own make-up in 10 minutes flat - takes great pains to emphasise that she got to where she is through sheer professionalism and hard work.

Surely her good looks help?

'I do not think I got here because of looks. Good looks may make people notice you and may open doors but for the doors to be fully open, you really have to work hard.'

She is particularly proud of her work on 'her baby', Managing Asia, a programme she has managed for eight years.

'When you make a CEO sit in that chair, you had better know him and his organisation inside out. In fact, you should bring up things that he thinks you do not know. If you do not, you are wasting his time,' she says.

She has honed her skills over the years, preferring a soft but honest approach.

'I tell them what I hope to achieve instead of going straight for the jugular. You would be surprised at what they tell me,' she says.

'If you make them uncomfortable, they are not going to tell you the things you want to know.'

Not that she is a pushover. She has encountered business leaders who avoid talking about failures or sweep scandals under the carpets.

'People who are cagey are those heading multi- national corporations. They are coached so well by their public relations staff that everything they say sounds as though it is straight from a brochure.'

She has been known to stop interviews when she does not get the answers that she wants.

'I tell them respectfully that they are not answering my questions. I tell them if we do not talk about tough times honestly, both he and the show will lose credibility. After all, the show is for them to reflect upon what they have achieved and impart lessons that viewers, including other CEOs, can draw upon.'

The easiest to interview, she says, are the big-time billionaire business leaders such Las Vegas Sands Corp owner Sheldon Adelson, and Mr Gordon Wu, chairman of Hong Kong-listed Asian infrastructure firm Hopewell Holdings.

'I am just amazed at how humble they are. They have been through a lot while building their empires. They are the ones who will give you the little pieces of themselves that you would not normally get with other CEOs.'

She says she goes to work with a smile on her face every day and does not harbour dreams of running an empire herself.

'It is not a path everyone will or should take. I have thought about setting up a business, maybe something to do with pets,' says Tan who has a golden retriever called Ally.

Ms Tjoa-Rappa, who now works in the financial services industry, says: 'Work keeps her busy and it is not often that you find her relaxing. However, she makes time for the ones she loves, including her dog and mine. You could say she is almost militant in ensuring their happiness over her own.'

But when Tan does relax, it is always with her 'soul mate' of a husband, Mr Daniel Lee. He heads an Indonesian investment bank here.

'We love to take long walks around the neighbourhood. And we go on skiing holidays every year. We have skied almost everywhere - Japan, New Zealand and the Italian Alps.'

They are not closing the door on babies, she replies when asked if motherhood is part of her gameplan.

'That will be another journey when it happens. I will just go where life takes me.'

kimhoh@sph.com.sg

She's Hot! : Christine Tan of CNBC

Christine Tan is the Singapore-based anchor for CNBC's longest-running feature program  "Managing Asia". She also anchors "Worldwide Exchange", CNBC's groundbreaking program coming live every weekday from Asia, Europe and the U.S.  interviewing prominent CEOs and leaders of top companies doing business in Asia.

Tan has more than 16 years experience in journalism, more than half of which was with CNBC. During her career, she has covered the business and financial market impact from major news events like the Asian Economic Crisis, the Dot Com Bubble Crash, 9-11 attacks in the US and SARS Outbreak.

She received the Best News Program award at the 2004 Asian Television Awards on behalf of The Asian Wall Street Journal. The same program also won a finalist award at the 2004 New York Festivals for Coverage of a Breaking News Story.

Christine Tan also received Silver World Medal for Best Anchor at the 2009 New York Festivals Television Programming and Promotion Awards. She also won for Best Current Affairs Presenter award at the 2008 Asian Television Awards.  She was a finalist for Best News Anchor in 2001 and 2002 at the New York Festivals Awards and also a Best Current Affairs Presenter finalist at the 1997 and 2006 Asian Television Awards.

She holds a Bachelor of Arts degree in Sociology and English and a Masters of Arts with Honors in Sociology from the University of Auckland, New Zealand.

Does the Singaporean cougar exist?

Does the Singaporean cougar exist? A Singaporean woman hitting her 30's who clubs excessively and preys on younger Singaporean men? She may have reached a her mental and financial peak and therefore qualifies her to unleashed her sausage hunting expertise in order to satisfy her wanton hotdog buns.

The cougar scene in Singapore is dead as far as I know and besides there's way way way too much social stigma involving an older woman and a younger man. Especially an older asian women dating younger asian men. And I don't mean couple of years apart but like a whopping 10 years gap or more.

Would any Singaporean woman in her 30's selectively prey on SG men in their 20's? Given the social climate as it is in Singapore, I would say... maybe not. What do you think? Anyone been with an SG cougar?

You would if your cougar looks like Gongli... Oh yes, she's a Singaporean citizen btw.

from : http://erniesurn.xanga.com/712632665/singaporean-cougar/

Cougars go cruising for cubs

 First published in The New Paper  |  Tue, Dec 15 2009

Overwhelming response to first trip for older women and younger men.

THREE days ago, the first cruise for cougars set sail.

But if you think we are referring to mountain lions, you are mistaken – these cougars are women.
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Last Friday, the cruise ship Elation made history by hosting the world’s first International Cougar Cruise, reported CNN.

Elation spokesman Rich Gosse, who came up with the concept, said: “A cougar is generally known as a woman over 40 who likes to date younger men, but theoretically any woman who dates younger men is a cougar.”

All 300 places on the ship, which sailed from San Diego, California, to Ensenada, Mexico, for a three-night cruise, were taken up and there was even a waiting list.

Ms Ann Thomas, owner of the Singles Travel Company who organised the cruise, told CNN: “I’ve never seen a response quite like this.”

She said she was hesitant to sign on to the idea at first but now is glad that she did.

“We have people flying in from Italy and Denmark. My associates have been booking from France, Canada. It’s fascinating.”

She added: “And starting at US$125 (S$174) per ticket, it’s a great price. I’ve had to hire two more people part-time just to pick up the phones.”

The ship has three swimming pools, a seven-deck-high atrium, bar and grill, a Moroccan-inspired Casablanca Casino and a lounge that features stage shows.

After making port in Ensenada, there are extracurricular activities like horse-riding, all-terrain vehicles rides and other outdoor activities.

Ms Thomas said: “There are at least four or five options a day for people to get together on the cruise. We’re doing lots of activities; dancing, dining, jacuzzi parties, two-hour karaoke sessions.”

Mr Gosse, who has been hosting singles events for more than 30 years, got the idea for the cougar cruise after hosting a cougar convention in Palo Alto, California.

He told USA Today: “We had to turn away hundreds of people. Then we did one (cougar convention) in Beverly Hills and had a massive crowd down there. So I thought, maybe we should do a cougar cruise.

“I didn’t think anyone would want to go. Needless to say, the phone is ringing off the hook.”

More cubs

But plans for future cruises have run into an iceberg of sorts – too many cubs and not enough cougars.

Mr Gosse defined a “cub” as someone in his 20s or early 30s who likes to date older women.

He said: “The basic problem is, we have too many cubs. We usually have too many women and not enough guys, but there’s been a paradigm shift in recent years.

“So now, the cubs are more excited about it than the cougars.”

He said that in the past, it was socially acceptable for older men to date younger women.

But, he said, celebrities like 31-year-old Ashton Kutcher (the husband of actress Demi Moore, 47) and 34-year-old baseball player Alex Rodriguez (who is rumoured to have dated pop star Madonna, 51) have led to a new generation of younger men on the prowl for more experienced partners.

There is now also a US sitcom called Cougar Town, which glamorises the sexual escapades of a divorcee in her 40s in search of self-discovery by dating younger men.

According to the US Census Bureau, there are 118 single men for every 100 single women in their 20s in the country.

Ms Thomas said this skewed profile was because young women were dating older guys. “If you look at the demographics, the only logical way for people to get their needs met is for younger men to date older women.”

This article was first published in The New Paper.

Are cougars on the hunt in Singapore?

by Tan Yi Hui
 
 
A predatory woman on the prowl for fresh meat in the form of younger men - the cougar. It is a cliche about older women that has been given a new lease of life lately with television shows using it as a theme.

American TV reality dating show The Cougar aired on-demand on SingTel mio TV's Season Pass earlier this year, featuring 40-year-old blonde bombshell Stacey Anderson, a mother of four who has a group of 20-something men drooling over her.

And a sitcom called Cougar Town, starring Courtney Cox from Friends, hit screens in the United States recently. Cox plays a newly single middle-aged mum back on the dating scene.

So are there cougars on the hunt in Singapore? Couples here declare all that fuss and hype could not be further from the truth.

Experts tell LifeStyle that it is time to throw away these prejudices and stereotypes about older women and younger men.

Although a check with the Department of Statistics shows that the proportion of men marrying women six or more years older has held steady at an average of 2.1 per cent of total annual marriages over the last decade, experts say the trend is set to increase as society becomes more liberal.

And there is no 'predatory' issue involved at all, such couples say. What is more important are the relationship dynamics caused by the age gap.

Civil servant and mother-of-two Margaret Chee, 39 recalls having insecurity issues with her now husband, Anthony Lee, 33, a lawyer. The couple met 13 years ago when they were colleagues at the Ministry of Defence (Mindef).  She was a staff member, while he was doing national service.

They hit it off and he gave her moral and emotional support when she had to undergo surgery to remove an ovary because of a cyst.

When he went to law school, they felt insecure about the relationship. She says: 'He was six years younger than me. With so many young girls in school, there were always temptations.

'But I was at Mindef with mostly male colleagues, so he, too, had insecurities to the point of being possessive, asking me who I was out with. Sometimes I would cry over such arguments.'

The couple worked out their issues, recognising they were serious about each other and got to know each other's families. Ms Chee admits that their families were concerned about whether their relationship would work out, but ultimately all were supportive.

Despite cases like Ms Chee's, the older-woman-younger-man relationship is still seen as taboo by most people. Some couples LifeStyle contacted declined to be featured because of sensitivities.

Marketing executive Lara Tan, 24, says: 'I would not date younger guys because I find older men much more mature and attractive.'

A 20-something sales manager who wants to be known only as Dominic, says: 'I've dated women much older than me but I doubt it would work out in marriage where I'll have to answer to my family.'
So what is the fuss about?

Associate professor Tan Ern Ser, a sociologist from the National University of Singapore (NUS), says: 'We are still a patriarchal society, though less so than before.

'Men are expected to be the breadwinner, head of the household and authority figure in the family. Since these roles come with age, it seems logical for women to marry older men. Those who do otherwise are seen as deviating from the norm.'

Psychologist Daniel Koh says young children are taught to respect older women as mother figures. This affects how they base their values as adults, and to some, older women cannot be seen in a sexual light.
But experts point out that society here is expected to open up more to such marriages as people become more educated and liberal-minded.

Another NUS sociologist, Professor Jean Yeung, says that because of such changes, 'marriages become more individualistic. People are seeking gratifying relationships in a marriage'.

She adds: 'The increasing number of celebrities in popular culture who are in such relationships has likely reduced the stigma.'

At the end of the day, such couples may have a trump card over others.

Mr Ang Thiam Hong, psychotherapist and relationship coach at Edora Counselling Services, explains: 'The age gap may be positive as it serves as a natural motivation for the couple to tend more to their marriage, instead of neglecting it as many couples do over time.'

tanyihui@sph.com.sg
This article was first published in The Sunday Times.
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